Why do some people easily like everyone after a few minutes of communication, and others do not become attractive even after years of acquaintance? How can relationships with others be greatly improved and easily liked? How to build a good and friendly relationship? How to improve relationships with girls, friends, colleagues, acquaintances and even unfamiliar people? Psychologists told the main secret of good communication and sympathy of others.
There is a psychological trick called the “three-minute rule”. If you do it, it will significantly improve relations with people. Psychologists recommend that it should be used primarily by parents to improve relationships with children. But this method is good for establishing positive communication with any people. The rule of three minutes is as follows.
At the meeting, you should openly demonstrate spiritual joy, as if you have not seen this person for a long time. You should start not as soon as you see him, but after a second. Then the person will understand that all the positive and emotions because of him. It will be like the sun, which appears from the clouds and begins to please with its warm rays. How do all people like it? The three-minute rule.
How do all people like it?
Plan for three minutes Wide, open and sincere smile. If it doesn’t work, think of something good. Get your eyes in the smile, not just your lips. That shows the sincerity of the smile. Say hello to a man by name. That’s the nicest word for the person you’re talking to. Emotionally and openly rejoice in the meeting. The interlocutor will see sympathy for him. Demonstrate your kindness and willingness in close communication. Say hello to the person by the hand or accidentally touch him. This will bring warmth to the conversation. Show your own positive and healthy optimism. The mood is transmitted when you meet them. Ask about the person’s affairs, health, family and mood. Say a little compliment or a word of approval. Show that you like the person as if you were good friends. Keep the emotional rise of the first moments of communication.
When the conversation ends, smile openly and say a warm goodbye. Positive mood and friendliness, in the first minutes of communication, it is impossible not to notice. In communicating with people, it is not the duration of communication that is important, but emotional intimacy. Such intimacy arises if you are happy when you meet a person. A few minutes of joyful communication is very well remembered, because the person emotionally “spilled out” at the beginning of the communication. A dry greeting is extremely unproductive if you want people to like you. It is possible to greet people dryly for years and to be surprised that nobody likes you. Nobody likes unemotional and sad “dry people”.
Start greeting people in a friendly manner and use the three-minute rule. In a month, you’ll see a dramatic change in communication with others. You’ll have more friends, good acquaintances and girls. You will establish relationships with colleagues and people with whom you often interact. Relationships with loved ones and parents will improve. It will be easier with the opposite sex, because a friendly attitude attracts girls. How do all people like it? Use a psychologist’s method called the “three-minute rule”. Friends, buddies and girls will not be discouraged.