Virtual love: is it possible?

What is virtual love? Some 15-20 years ago no one could have suspected the existence of such a phenomenon, because, in fact, it did not exist. And does virtual love exist today? It is difficult to answer this question, as well as in the exact definition of its main essence, because even the concept of real love, for many, something incomprehensible and inexplicable.

 

Love embraces all feelings, clouds the brain, a person ceases to perceive what is happening adequately, his only and important goal is to see, feel and touch the person he loves.

Virtual love: is it possible?

What is virtual love? Some 15-20 years ago no one could have suspected the existence of such a phenomenon, because, in fact, it did not exist. And does virtual love exist today? It is difficult to answer this question, as well as in the exact definition of its main essence, because even the concept of real love, for many, something incomprehensible and inexplicable.

 

Love embraces all feelings, clouds the brain, a person ceases to perceive what is happening adequately, his only and important goal is to see, feel and touch the person he loves.

 

Where to look for love

Virtual love appeared on the expanses of the World Wide Web, now it is not necessary to fall in love with a colleague or classmate, because the possible circle of communication is not limited to your usual environment, it can spread even in the most remote parts of our planet.

Regarding this concept, there is a huge number of disputes and gossip, someone believes that virtual love has a lot of real advantages, someone, on the contrary, is negatively configured and sees the downsides of such a phenomenon. But how is it really? Does it have the right to exist and should it be considered an important part of life of a modern person?

 

One can argue on this topic for a long time and give a lot of arguments and refutations, but we have to admit: virtual love is an amazing manifestation of virtual communication, which has already become part of such a process, which, by the way, is incredibly popular today, especially among young people. What is the basis of such love? How can it even exist? It is very simple.

 

    Words are the main weapon of this phenomenon, words and emotions that they are able to evoke in the communicators, which is the most interesting thing, often behind these words they see much more than the person actually wanted to convey.

Virtual love – is a kind of fairy tale, which is subject to a common “writing” of two people, and it is in this fairy tale that each participant of the conversation can appear as a “beautiful prince” or “beautiful princess”, but anyone, and, most importantly, you can never know the real state of things.

 

Usually, in the network of such romantic “adventures” there are single people who are looking for communication or some feelings, people who have already achieved some success in novels and relationships, but somehow disappointed in their existence. Everything begins with the usual throwing of banal phrases and, gradually, the person does not feel how attached he is to his interlocutor.

 

What is the virtual love?

Such a strange phenomenon even has its own classification, which is based on the initial motives of acquaintance and communication.

    Love from boredom. It is not uncommon for married women or married men who may have a happy family, children and a successful career to be exposed to this phenomenon. Everything is fine, but something is wrong, boring and gray. And here you find a dating site or social network, where for some 15-20 minutes you can find a like-minded person or just a nice person to talk to about everything in the world. Such communication can last for more than one month, and usually ends with the fact that one of the interlocutors understands that meetings in real life are unnecessary, and he does not see any further developments.

    For sexual satisfaction. It starts the same way as in the previous paragraph, but everything ends after the first meeting, because it is so convenient: to find a “victim”, so to speak, without leaving home.

    Random. In this case, there is something to expect, it is quite possible that such a virtual love will even end with a real relationship in life. Usually, it begins with the usual communication, where none of the interlocutors pursues certain goals, and, over time, people realize that their feelings, emotions and worldviews are very similar.

 

What waits there, behind the monitor screen?

Many people are skeptical about this kind of phenomena, really, is it worth believing some “young and pretty Vasa from Moscow, a big businessman and a bachelor”, because it is quite possible that at the opposite end of the dialogue sits a 50-year-old man with a beer belly and not the purest intentions.

Indeed, the risk is not avoided here, but then is it worth going into something similar? In fact, it should be noted that such virtual communication and feelings that are tied to your interlocutor are always real, because you really experience emotions, different, joy or sadness, excitement or longing, but all this is very good.

 

    The sadness is that the emotions are real, but you do not feel them for the person, but rather for the image that he managed to create for you in a chat room.

 

If people who correspond have never seen each other in reality, they may have many pitfalls, and embellished images are only one of a few. Let’s say that your virtual “relationships” are developing dynamically, you have already discussed a lot, and it may even seem to you that you already know this person so long!

Do not take everything to heart

And all would be fine, but you are deprived of the opportunity to touch, smile, hug or kiss, which are very important aspects of a normal relationship. And, most offensively, it is quite possible that you will never be able to feel it, because the longer the virtual communication is delayed, the less chances you have to have a real meeting.

 

And this means that all your “walks under the moon” and “romantic meetings” will remain just a figment of your imagination and imagination. In the end – all the same broken hearts, disappointments and sadness, because the break, even virtual, it is always hard and painful, and all this time, years and youth …

 

But not everything is so sad, not always the consequences of virtual love are so disappointing: psychologists say that this way you can find your true love, get married and live your whole life in a happy marriage! But how to avoid disappointment, is it possible to arrange your personal life through chat rooms and social networks?

 

It’s very simple: do not delay with a real meeting, in a few weeks you will not be able to form in your head that “ideal image of a hero or a princess”, which you yourself will think. At the meeting, you will be able to understand whether it makes sense to continue any communication, including virtual ones, or this person is definitely not for you, and therefore it is not worth spending time on it.

If there is no possibility to meet soon, for example, the interlocutors live on different parts of the planet, video chats are better than usual correspondence, webcams are now available to almost everyone. Try to be honest and open with your interlocutor, communicate on a variety of topics, ask more questions about life, and sometimes these questions can be repeated and compared answers.

 

If you notice that the interlocutor each time answers something new, it is quite possible that you are dealing with a person who is trying to create a false image in your head.

 

Virtual love is, in fact, not a bad phenomenon, which, however, should be used correctly, remember that real feelings and emotions can never be replaced with virtual ones.