Sooner or later, virtual communication is bound to turn into live communication. Do you want to ask the girl of your dreams on a date, but are afraid that something will go wrong and the meeting will fail? In that case, let me tell you about the most popular places where it’s easy to create a romantic setting and start a more intimate relationship as a couple. But first, some tips on how to please your chosen one.
How do you know what she likes?
First of all, find out about the girl’s interests. In this matter, every detail is important, because ladies appreciate the attention of men to their “cockroaches”. As the saying goes, forewarned is forearmed. Visit her personal pages on social networks. Most girls describe their hobbies in detail on them, indicate hobbies and post photos from places they prefer to visit. What you can glean from there:
Her date of birth. And what if you met just a few days before the planned celebration? In that case, the date of the first date is better to coincide with her birthday and show that you are well aware of such an important event. Remember, girls love and remember the attention from a man to the little things. Her hobbies and hobbies. To understand where to take a girl on a date, you need to figure out what your date might like. After all, not everyone will be delighted by a banal restaurant, albeit with a cosmic price tag on dishes. It is possible that your friend was crazy about cats, and will be unspeakably happy to visit the exhibition of these fluffy pets. But I still recommend you first check if she has at home forty cheeky muzzles, otherwise you can not call on a date. Her position and place of work. This information is also very important. If a girl works on a senior position in a large company, assigning tasks to a large team, or monthly grubbing over the multi-million balance check, the lady has to correspond to herself.
Most likely, she is well-read and versatile person (I do not take into account girls who were put “at the helm” through connections or because of the efforts of wealthy parents). Such a friend I would not recommend to take her to cheap smoky pubs or to a concert with stupid stand-up jokes that don’t rise above the belt. Her social circle. Friends sometimes say a lot directly about a person and his character. A photo of them together will probably tell you where the girl likes to spend her free time. Her profile is full of pictures from the bowling alley, where she is surrounded by friends scoring a strike? That’s where you should ask your date out. By the way, if you yourself do not know how to play, it is quite possible to ask her for a couple of lessons. Isn’t that an excuse for a more intimate and relaxed conversation?
When choosing a place for a date, do not forget about your own interests. If you feel bored, dislike or discomfort, be sure that the girl is sure to feel it and will certainly take it personally. Prove to your girlfriend that it was not her, it will be almost impossible.
A date with an appetite The stomach is not the only way to a man’s heart. The female organ is no less sensitive to delicious food. In addition, it relaxes the girl and sets her up for a pleasant conversation. If after a long thought about where to take the girl on a date, you have chosen a classic option in the form of a cafe or restaurant, keep in mind a few important points: Do not try to get your date drunk. First of all, this is simply ugly. Trust me, there are plenty of other more elegant ways to shorten the distance between you and move into a horizontal dialogue. Secondly, even if that is the purpose of the date, sleeping with a drunk lady is a highly questionable pleasure. Third, are you sure you can out-drink her? Calculate your financial capabilities. An inexpensive place is not a sign of bad taste. Not all girls consider exclusively luxury restaurants as a place for a first date, but I would not include McDonald’s in the list of options. By the way, if a girl is interested in continuing the conversation with you, she will offer to choose the dishes from the menu herself, not to order over the amount lying in the man’s pocket.
This is not a bad sign of sympathy. If your communication is not yet very warm, you can even agree in advance on a separate bill. I can not say that I support this trend, but today’s young people are quite acceptable. You should not choose a restaurant with exotic cuisine. On a date at such an institution can go only if you are both connoisseurs of salted monkey ears, fried maggots and other such “deliciousness”. Otherwise, instead of a romantic evening you’ll both get heartburn at best. At worst, you’ll have to hold her hair over the white earthenware “friend.” This, of course, rapprochement, but the romance is far from it. It is not necessary before going to the restaurant to give your companion a large-scale bouquet. Usually the waiter brings a vase and puts flowers on the table. And then how to continue to communicate, if between you will be a whole bush? It is worth limiting yourself to a more stylish small flower arrangement, which will not interfere with the meal in any way. Don’t get yourself drunk.
This is practically a golden rule that every gentleman should learn. Even if you are wildly worried that on a date you blurted out something wrong, in any case do not add courage degrees. The result of such a meeting will clearly not be in favor of continuing the relationship. Do not forget that many girls now revere vegetarianism. Be sure to keep this feature in mind when choosing a place for dinner. It’s also a good idea to find out right away how she feels about meat-eaters in general. Otherwise, when eating steak, you risk getting a purse on the head.
If a restaurant or cafe seems too corny an idea for a date, I can suggest some more very original options. But each of them will be relevant only if you both find it interesting.
Meet our little brothers Many girls come to admire cute furry animals. Animal lovers are ready to endlessly discuss funny faces and take pictures with adorable pets. If you do not know where to take a girl on a date, invite her to a cat or dog show, the zoo, local exotarium, aquarium or dolphinarium. True, there’s a catch here, too. If a girl is a fierce defender of the rights of our smaller brothers, she may be right in the zoo, cause a scandal and start demanding to release animals into the wild. So you do not have to drag her friend from the cage or get away from the guards, make inquiries about the views of his girlfriend. Again, the Internet will help you in this.
Going to the movies Sounds corny, but very romantic. In order not to spoil your date, keep in mind that this place will not always be a good option for a romantic meeting with a girl you like. Here are a few nuances: Most likely, you’ll just stare at the screen in silence, absorbed in the plot. This will not give you a chance to get to know the object of your admiration better and learn something about her in the process of communication. A dark hall will not leave a chance to see your companion live. But a private cinema is quite another matter. There you can take a cozy couch and embrace your girlfriend, if she was afraid of the maniac on the screen. No one will not smack in your ear, kick the back of the chair, or make inappropriate comments.
Sounds like a great date night to me. Make sure you find out if there’s a place like this in your city. Think carefully about what movies are appropriate for the date. I would not recommend taking your girlfriend to see horror and action movies, unless of course she is a fan of blood stains on the walls. Melodrama may seem too boring and boring already to you. Not a bad choice – comedy, detective or psychological thriller. Don’t forget to treat the lady to popcorn or something yummy. It’s more budget-friendly than a restaurant, but it’ll pretty much let you pave the way to her heart if the girl likes to eat (yes, yes, we don’t mind stuffing our bellies either, especially when we’re feeling comfortable and relaxed).
I’ll end with one more piece of good advice. Before you go to a movie theater, be sure to wear clean socks that have not yet had time to suffer from moths and time. Not ha-ha, but seriously. If you’re going to be watching a movie while sprawled out on the couch, your shoes will probably have to come off. You don’t want your date to have watery eyes all night, do you?
If the girl prefers a quiet time in places where there are no crowds of loud people and deafening music, give her a romantic cultural outing. This could be an art gallery, museum or temporary exhibition, which came to your city for a few days. If you can not call yourself a connoisseur of painting, and art in general, first familiarize yourself with the program and the artists whose work will be presented at the event. Typically, in such places there is a buffet or canteen, where you can eat and take a break, while discussing with the girl impressions. But I should warn you right away, the prices there are often very high. If your budget is fully spent to pay for tickets, do not play the son of an oligarch. In the same theme perfectly fit and theater.
But for some productions can be a real stir, so tickets run out as much as a month before the premiere. It will be better if you take care of your leisure time in advance, rather than the day before your scheduled date. The theater is not a place for sports chic. Stick to a classic style of dress. Jeans are better left for walks in the park. I also recommend informing the girl about the plans in advance. She’s sure to want to dress up to look appropriate. If the theater will be a surprise, there is a risk that she will dress inappropriately, and she will be very worried and upset.
Horseback riding These beautiful and proud animals almost all ladies cause a storm of positive emotions. So if you do not know where to take the girl on a date, a joint ride on horseback is not the worst option. Just find out in advance if your girlfriend is not afraid of show jumping. Otherwise, instead of a pleasant pastime and easy conversation you get a girl, squealing with fear and graying in front of her eyes. Agree in advance with the owners of the stables about the planned event. Let your companion choose her own horse. If you yourself are not a professional rider, you should not refuse the services of a trainer or assistant.
After the walk, feed the horses. Usually girls are very fond of this. There is no need to present the ride as a surprise, because clothes and shoes must necessarily be practical and very comfortable. A girl will obviously not thank you if she unknowingly wears a dress with a neckline and stiletto shoes. Have you ever seen angry ladies in evening attire sitting on horseback? That’s not worth trying. Consider your riding skills when choosing your route. Excessive bravado will clearly be out of place here. Do not turn the date into a race for survival. Surely after such an event the girl will be tired. Suggest that she drink something warming, and better, take care to take a coffee or tea in a thermos. Before you offer to walk her home, ask about a cab. Trust me, horseback riding has the same effect as squatting for fitness.
I remember a young man once asked me out on a date to play billiards. I could not play, and he was quite good at this pastime. Of course, the gentleman offered to teach me how to hold a cue and break the pieces. To tell the truth, it came out very romantic and even a little sexual, because the process is accompanied by a very close body contact.
It is quite possible that your companion will not deny herself the pleasure of getting a couple of similar lessons. Besides, it will be a great opportunity for her to demonstrate her grace. What can be more spectacular than a lady with a deep cleavage, taking a comfortable pose for a shot at the pool table. Make sure that in the process of training your undisguised interest in the companion does not rest against her leg. Try to choose a place and time so that at the time of the date the room was as free as possible from the drunk merry companies. Otherwise, the romance will be just a dream. It’s better to choose a more expensive club, so that the cloth was not leaky, and the atmosphere did not consist of cigarette smoke and cheap alcohol.
The ice rink is a good place to meet someone in person. The girl will probably have to be constantly supported by the waist or an elbow, so she does not fall. But if your companion has been skating since childhood, it is likely that she will have to lift you off the ice. Soberly assess your ability to keep your balance. Do not forget the warming drinks. Stocked in advance thermos with hot tea or coffee will give the entertainment a touch of romance. Homemade mulled wine or punch will turn the sport into a real fun adventure. But don’t go overboard with the degrees so the girl doesn’t have to be scraped off the ice. It will be quite romantic of you to offer your girlfriend your scarf or mittens. And she doesn’t always have to be very cold to do so. Flirting and flirting has not been canceled. By the way, do not miss the moment when the lady gives you a subtle hint that it’s getting chilly. How about warming her up with a gentle embrace?
Parks and Attractions A walk outdoors is always pleasant and romantic. Choose a day according to the weather forecast. A gusty wind or icy downpour won’t help you win her over. Let her know in advance that you’re inviting her for a walk to her companion to wear sneakers, but not high heels.
So that you don’t have to walk for hours at a time, laps around the flowerbeds, offer your girlfriend some fun at the shooting gallery or at the amusement rides. It is known to bring you closer to each other by doing silly things together. Also, such a pastime energizes positive and sets up a carefree mood even the most overworked lady. Help your girlfriend with ice cream or cotton candy. Get a taste of childhood and just chat about nothing.
Full relaxation For the most self-confident men there is an option of a joint trip to a massage parlor or spa. But modest girls this kind of first date can embarrass and even a little scare. Therefore, this kind of leisure is better to offer already in a warmer relationship, when there is no awkward tension or mistrust. The advantage of such a date is the romantic relaxing atmosphere, the opportunity to really get a break from everyday problems and worries, as well as the feeling of luxury. If the girl has nothing against a massage session, feel free to book a program in a good salon. And do not forget to bring a bottle of champagne and fruit. As a rule, this kind of leisure provides for relaxation after the procedures.
A picnic in the countryside The hectic atmosphere will tire anyone out. If you are looking for a place to take your girlfriend on a date, consider a picnic in the country. Lunch on the banks of a river or lake is unlikely to leave your date indifferent. Take only those products that will not spoil on the road. Be sure to bring fruit and some sweets. Try to focus on dishes that are convenient to eat without a table and a mass of specific devices, such as light snacks: cupcakes, canapes, sandwiches. If the picnic menu includes alcohol, do not forget to take and clean drinking water. This is especially true in the hot summer.
Even if the weather is blessed with sunny warmth, a rug on such a date is a must. Otherwise you will have to sit on the bare ground, which threatens health problems, not to mention stained pants. If you plan to stay out of town until the evening, think about warm outerwear so that the date doesn’t end earlier than originally planned.
As you can see, there are really a lot of options. It’s enough to show a little imagination and ingenuity. The main thing is to take into account the interests of both, so that the date will be pleasant for everyone. By the way, the financial issue is not in first place. It’s much more important to be yourself and allow the same to your girlfriend.