It’s hard to see for yourself, but you can see it perfectly from the outside. Life is at a dead end and you don’t know what to do? The job is hopeless, it doesn’t bring satisfaction and money? Is the relationship toxic and long dead? Are you unhappy and it’s getting worse? Why are you going down? The reasons for the failures that are drowning you. Things can be bad in a person’s life.
He’s not happy with his job, his relationships, his friends, his environment and his life in general. But he continues to go to unloved work, continues to be in a toxic relationship and continues to do hopeless things. His family, friends and others sympathize with him, give him advice and try to help. But then they step aside, in perplexity, divorcing their hands. They do not manage to reckon with a stubborn man going to his own death.
Why are you going down? What is the reason for such a man’s failure? Why does a man go back to a place where he feels bad? Why does he keep doing what he did before, even if it leads to a negative result? When you become so stubborn, you do not notice your stupid and destructive stubbornness. A man stays where he feels bad because of a naive desire to make things right. When you pull a suitcase without a pen that you throw away pitifully… The man secretly believes he can do it, even if the facts say otherwise. But life is not a movie or a fairy tale, there are very different laws.
Why are you going down?
Causes of failure Causes of failure in career, relationships and life Man remains in a toxic relationship. He tries to “fix” the relationship and his soul mate, though it’s useless. He tries to fix a toxic and inappropriate person, but he doesn’t care. The man suffers, but tries hard to pull the strap of “savior” and the knight on the white horse. There is no need to save anyone in a relationship – it is sadomasochism and stupid heroism, which will change nothing. You need to break up, not keep going down.
It’s only in a new relationship that you’ll be happy. A person stays in a job they don’t like. He hopes that he will get used to unloved work, will notice his efforts, the firm will start to flourish or everything will change for the better. But this is nonsense. You have to leave with a job you don’t like and have no future. You don’t have to stay where you feel bad. Go looking, not trying to fix the Titanic that’s going to go down for sure. A man communicates with negative people. They criticize him and stick him in the wheels. All your friends are losers, losers and alcoholics?
But why hang out with people who pull themselves to the bottom? Why fight them and convince them? Why stay where the bad is? Find people who have similar goals and levels of motivation. A man does stupid things. Often a person is stubborn, instead of persistent. He does things that should have been abandoned a long time ago. He keeps banging his forehead against the wall, tries, but nothing works. He does a useless job, wasting time, energy and other resources. Why stay where it’s bad? Do something else. Why are you going down and it’s not working? You’re stubbornly staying where the bad is, not trying to change it. Why do you stay where the bad is?